People with high EQ don’t get angry at other people’s bad words, they do it instead
Slandering and slandering are common things in life, even if you are as perfect as a god, you are still silently cursed and denigrated by people.
Being slandered is not terrible, the important thing is that after hearing bad words, let yourself continue to live well, do not betray yourself or waste your youth in sadness. People with high EQ really don’t get upset by other people’s bad words. On the contrary, they will increasingly bravely fight those words and use their strong, matchless hearts to help themselves keep moving forward.
Being slandered and slandered by others but still in a calm mood is the most admirable thing
Many people when they are young, if they find out that someone is talking badly behind their back , they will get angry and want to say three things and find that person to talk to. They do not accept that unrighteous way of life.
But for people with high EQ, who have life experience, this is a disadvantageous behavior for you, getting angry at other people’s bad words means you are enslaving your emotions. Sometimes, your anger isn’t just directed at the person speaking the bad guy, but puts you in an embarrassing situation.
People who talk bad about others behind their backs are not evil, but because they have low EQ. So it’s not worth it to get angry or do thoughtless things because of them. Life is yours, and has nothing to do with other people. As long as you are not tempted by bad things, everything is fine.
I really admire my friend, a person with high emotional intelligence. Whenever she hears someone say bad things about her, even though she is very angry, she still doesn’t confront them. Instead, she will make a cup of tea, stay away from social media to calm herself for a while. Even when faced with a difficult customer’s phone call, she did not lose her temper and tried to do everything meticulously.
Being in control of your emotions is taking control of your life. Being slandered or slandered by others while remaining calm is the most admirable thing. People with high EQ will understand this well.
When others speak ill of you, you cannot slander yourself
My grandmother, a pure and honest person, but once a superior of a newspaper, was also derided by people. Seeing her upset many times because of those slanders, he did not let her work anymore, forcing her to resign.
But she decided not to listen to him. She said: “Even if I die, I will die innocently. The more people slander, the more I can’t slander myself.” During that “war”, she defended her dignity with patience and silence.
The crowd gave her a bad name, and she continued to hold her head high and do her job without conceding or compromising. Every time at the office someone spoke badly, she returned home to focus on cooking for her husband and children, working even harder. She turned bad words into her own strength.
She told me: “For other people’s bad words about me, sometimes silence is more effective, more powerful than feedback”.
My family really admired her patience with bad words, and clearly saw the wisdom and sophistication of a person with high EQ like her.
“As much slander I can endure, I can endure as much praise”
I once watched a program called No Defense Tonight and Cheung Kwok Wing said: “My image at that time did not seem to please everyone”. He said in one program, he wore a suit and a navy hat standing on the stage singing. After singing, he took off his hat and threw it at the audience with the thought that the fans would accept his gift. But no, he was strongly opposed and the audience even asked him to retire.
He cried all night because of everyone’s malicious comments, but the next day, he still went back to the management company to work normally, happily as if nothing happened. Fan Bingbing once said: “I can stand as much slander as I can withstand”, “that’s a powerful philosophy” and I find it really true in my case. Truong Quoc Vinh.
No one is perfect and there are always many bad words waiting for us throughout this life. But those who can go to bed early, work hard even when people say bad things about them are the strongest.
Slandering and slandering are common things in life, even if you are as perfect as a god, you are still silently cursed and denigrated by people. Those who are delicate and sociable will also be deprecated. Cultivating the mind to nurture nature, encountering problems is not as good as thinking calmly, focusing on doing well on your own.